Here’s a Brilliant Definition to the most passionate word..

I have included this in the earlier blog but it is so beautiful that I am writing about it again.

‘A soulmate is not necessarily a lover or your life partner. A soulmate can be anyone in your life who has a great positive influence on you. Every single person that we deem to be “significant” truly is exactly that, for their vibrational essence is blending with ours and together we are creating a unique energy. It is believed that the soul radiates all about the physical body, what some refer to as an aura. When you connect with another person spiritually and become completely open and trusting with that individual, your two souls begin to flow together. Should such a deep bond to be formed, it is said you have found your soulmate. We are all joined in an ancient and eternal union with humanity that cut across all barriers of time, convention, philosophy and definition. When you are blessed with a soulmate, you have arrived at that most sacred place: home. This is a place so sacred that you open up completely to your soulmate. A soulmate can be a guru, a parent, a friend or your lover”

I saw this on the Facebook page of “we the women” and shared by a friend some three years back. I thought it is beautiful and remembered saving it. 

I looked for the saved item many times afterwards but could not locate it. Then one day recently it just popped up.

Read this carefully. Perhaps here is answer to many of our doubts/ confusions. A soulmate is wrongly defined as the lover or spouse. But it is not! Of course the soulmate can be the lover or spouse, and then it is well and good.

But sometimes some people come across another person who is someone never to be missed. Some excuses are in calling that person best friend. But we all have several friends and many ‘best friends’. A best friend can be a soulmate though.

Can you find a soulmate without the other person being aware of it? Perhaps yes!
But reading the definition carefully, it appears that you can’t reach the sacred place ‘home ‘ alone. 

Can you have many soulmates? No to me! Otherwise it will be a crowd. But sometimes people have more than one spouses (spice then) and maybe so for soulmates.

Read the definition very carefully and if you think you have someone fitting the definition and share the sacred place, then you are blessed. 

Don’t worry if the soulmate is not your spouse. It is not always meant to be. You don’t have to change anything. Spouse remains the spouse, as husband/ wife; parent to the children etc etc. That means, if you find the soulmate, you don’t have to change anything, as the soulmate need not be your spouse. Of course give that person the first chance and if there is a fit then it’s bliss 

If soulmate is not your spouse, don’t worry, you may not be alone. Hold on to your soulmate and you can do it without any guilt and without having to break or change anything. Enjoy the spiritual connection and reach the most sacred place “home”.

This is an important message. A life saver. Life becomes more meaningful, easy and exciting. If it’s a revelutionary approach, then be it. 

And when I have a large number of blogs and I decide to publish them as a book, printed with my money, as no publisher will print on their own and distributed free (sometimes forcefully) as no one will buy; the soulmate item would be the masterpiece.

Please read, mark ‘like’ as there is nothing to dislike and please give me your views and comments…


76 thoughts on “SOULMATE 

  1. The book idea is great. I deserve a first edition copy!
    As to the ‘Soulmate’ , it is as evasive as the yeti or unicorn or the Sphinx! Blessed are you Kurian, if you have found yours😀. I am very sceptical about people who claim their spouse or spice ! as their soul mates. May be there are exceptions.

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  2. A very deep thought u have shared here…and I can sense ur relief too here that u needn’t be guilty about your better half not being your soulmate… and for that book…uhmm..i like the thought of it…and waiting to be a Part of any assistance with it.. Good post KJ…u cleared so many things for me …thus giving me clarity. ☺

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    1. Good analysis Anna
      Just one correction, the definition according to my analysis is suggesting anyone where complete trust is established and aura felt can be a soulmate.
      So need not be restricted to one.

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    2. And in fact the definition helps me in my mentoring efforts. The interaction and relationship with mentees become meaningful and effective. The definition says soulmate can be the father, guru, friend etc.

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      1. Actually a mentor is for a second opinion. For that complete trust is required. For trust clear identity is required. In two of my current roles I have taken the father identity warmly endorsed by the mentees. One calls me dad and other Appa. This way absolute trust is established. In fact one has even told her parents about the adoption. Probably unbelievable but very successful and involved.

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      2. It’s really marvellous. The parents of my mentee who calls me dad once asked ‘how’s your new daughter’. That’s when they visited us and my wife also laughed.
        There’s some intrigue, may be, but mentoring works super best

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      3. Actually Anna I feel very good on it by now. It’s not any rocket science, just earn the trust, speak the truth and you add much value.
        Defining relationship is key. For example when you assign daughter status, you give the attention and love due to a daughter.
        I have learned this from previous experience. I will tell you about them if and when I get a direct messaging facility with you

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      4. I am in home town Thidanad near Erattupetta and Kanjirappally. And like i said i am contacting you.
        It’s the aura you have and a blog friend has scientifically explained aura as frequently. I think the frequency is in sync. making us true friends and seeking to be on the same frequency 😊

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      5. Yes ..KJ…you are right. And glad you found the time to log in to catch up.. How did the rememberence day going ? Is the function over? Are you feeling nostalgic about being back in your home town…? Did you drive down ?

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      6. Yes Anna
        I just wrote about the synchronised frequencies. Amazing.
        Yes I drove down some 70 kms this morning. The function got over. We visited and prayed at the cemetery.
        Now I have to swim in my River. Also visit the banana plants.
        I have some plans on my land here.
        Good chatting with you Anna

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      7. Ok….KJ..just visit this site: you will have to copy and paste in to the browser because it might not work from here.
        You will find all the guidelines and the contact email id too just send a mail to that id …introducing yourself and your blog address and your email id. And tell your wish to join and consent to all the guidelines (read them in that web address i have given you on top). And just let me know too that you have sent the mail and i will inform the administrator too. Is everything clear now KJ.

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      8. I would love to see you as a part And Coauthor of Pencliff along with another 25 other talented writers. I feel you have a potential in your style of writing. Very simple yet very comforting.. I want your writing to reach wider audience. That’s the reason why i invited you after consulting our administrator of Pencliff.

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      9. Sorry KJ…I have been so held up and busy these two days….i shld be a bit free by tmrrw… and i wil reply your mail too by tmrrw. Bear with my delay please Kj.
        Otherwise how are you and how is our madam ji doing too… How are things going on with the book side?

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